Yet another step

What a day it has been.

Several months ago, I went to inquire about headstones that I talked about here. Just recently, my kids pointed out a commercial from this same place that was advertising a sale for headstones for the month of October. I love sales and deals, but it was kinda depressing thinking about checking out a sale for headstones. But that's what the kids and I did earlier this week. After the kids homeschoolers gym & swim class, we went down the road to see what they were offering in their sale. This location had 3 stones to offer that they wanted to move out of their stock. The guy told me about 2 of them, then I asked him if by chance he had anything in black. He was like well actually yes. See, back when I looked at them before, I asked about what is required to have a picture etched on a stone. I was told it can only be done on black stone. Which of course is the most expensive stone. Not to mention what it cost to have a pic done. So as much as I wanted that, I knew it was out of the question. But I thought with this sale, it was worth the chance to ask.

So when he told me they had not only a black one included in this sale, but one that would be perfect, I was intrigued. I explained to him about my previous visit and my hopes for a picture of Noah on it but that I didn't think we could afford it. He showed this stone to the kids and I and said he is actually the person who does the etching (the gal I saw before was tied up with someone else so he showed me the specials). He said he'd be willing to etch Noah's pic at no added cost if I wanted this stone. W O W!!!!! (keep in mind I was quoted that this would cost about $600 to do). He wasn't able to access the price book but told me a rough cost of this headstone which was actually attainable. I couldn't believe it. I wanted to both cry yet cheer! I didn't think the headstone I wanted for Noah would ever be within my grasp and yet here it was almost available.

Long story short, and thanks to some very special people in my life, we are able to get the headstone we wanted for Noah. So today, we went to start the process. It was bittersweet for sure. First off, we were in the midst of a snow storm as we headed out. Seriously, this much snow in October is unheard of so that in itself makes this day one to remember. So add in picking out Noah's headstone with this snow and it's definitely a day we will all remember.

As we sat down to start discussing details, doesn't the song "Blessing" by Laura Story come on the radio. I could've cried, what a sign that was!!!! Gave me chills.

The kids had suggested an idea for Noah's stone, we are waiting to see if we can make it happen. This was definitely a family event. We wanted the kids included in this as well as we will all spend years to come visiting Noah's precious earthly resting place.

I should've been thinking about what Christmas gifts to pick out for my almost one and half year old, not designing his headstone. While doing this brought a sense of peace in having something special picked out for my son, it was also a reminder of the finality of it all.

Which downright sucks.

I miss my son......more than words could ever express!

"Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, the vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. It is in our most trying times that our real character is shaped and revealed."
~ Helen Keller


  1. Cant wait to see a pic when it is done!!

  2. I'm so glad you were able to get the stone you were hoping for. I hope as the years go by it will be yet another connection between you and Noah that will bring a bit of comfort in the midst of missing him.

  3. oh, praying for you. we lost my husband's brother 3 years ago Nov 1. we went through the process of choosing a headstone and all of that... so hard. we also went with black marble and put a picture of Jason on it. We all think it is so worth it...

    it is nice to meet you through the blog party. thanks for linking up!

  4. Such a hard thing to do...picking a stone. But I am so glad that God was there with you and that with Him all things are possible!

    We have three grandchildren in heaven. God is faithful, and He comforts us so that we can share His comfort with others. Amen?

    You have such a beautiful family. And one day you will be together with Noah again. I know this thought brings us peace...and I'm sure it does the same for you.

    Love, Linda @ Truthful Tidbits

  5. Has the stone come in yet? I'm sure it's beautiful- I love it when there are pictures on the stone- makes it so much more personal! Praying for you all!!!



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